I have been using matching app since last August, for almost one year.

We have bad imagination about that, deaikei saito, in Japanese.
Actually, I met many scammers, kokusairomansu sagi, in Japanese.
However, I think it has good influence to me for now, so I'd like to write about it.

The very first man who I first matched was a Japanese guy who lives in the same 
prefecure as mine.
I was nervous and excied because it was my first time talking with a man
for many decades.
He was nice , honest, straightforward... too honest.

We talked on the phone a few times,
The last time we chatted on LINE,  he insulted my dream.
It made me verry uneasy and uncomfortable.
I instantly quit chatting and blocked him.

Then, I decided not to use the app any more.
The app was p〇〇〇〇.

Anyway, I remember now being excited talking with a man.
After getting divorced, I thought living alone is nice and felt free and easy,
but I found that there is something that I can tell only to  a man.

Then, it was the beginning my experience on matching apps.